"It
will be great to do what I want when
I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics to deal with!"
"At
last, the government will be paying
me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some of the positive
things about retirement that almost
everyone looks forward to. Unless it's
due to illness, the reason most retirees
leave their jobs is because they want
to, not because they're pushed out.
So for most, that last day on the job
is a joyful one filled with an invigorating
sense of personal freedom.
But many
retirees are not prepared for another
feeling that often follows that last
day of work: a profound sense of loss.
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A study sponsored by Civic Ventures,
Temple University, and the Center for
Intergenerational Learning surveyed
retired people of all economic levels,
and found that the majority had one
thing in common: They felt lonely. It
wasn't for lack of friends, family and
active social lives. Instead, it was
a loneliness for the kinds of relationships
they had established during their working
years. Almost all workers are part of
teams of some kind, and those teams
have daily problems to solve, solutions
to work out, new ideas to introduce.
An architect
who spent her life drawing plans had
an office full of people who understood
her work and appreciated her creative
new ideas. A science teacher of many
years had near-celebrity status among
his peers and his students, who always
seemed to be talking about the cool
things they were learning in his class.
The manager of quality-control at an
auto-assembly plant felt pride in his
team and got a special thrill each fall
when the new models came out and he
saw them on the road.
At
retirement, they may all have one thing
in common: loss of a sense of purpose.
The architect's purpose was to create
satisfying designs, the teacher's to
stimulate young minds, the quality-control
manager's to assure that his company's
products measured up to top standards.
What will replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part of their identities?
These
days, with rumblings that social security
might not last and with health care
costs escalating alarmingly, many retirees
find that instead of feeling the total
freedom they dreamed about, they are
haunted by worries about whether they
have enough money saved to actually
enjoy their retired years. The fact
that people are living so much longer
than they did a decade ago should seem
like good news-but the prospect of how
to finance all those extra years is
troublesome to many people when they
leave the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement can be an unsettling
time. But it doesn't have to be.
Many
people have a different view of retirement.
One respondent in the study mentioned
above said: "I like to think
of myself as retiring TO something as
opposed to retiring FROM something."
In other
words, retirement shouldn't be a
stopping point, but a continuation of
the journey through life. Why toss
all the experience you've gained through
years of working? You're one of the
"wise ones" now. There are
people out there who value you.
A 2005
comprehensive study released by AARP
and Towers Perrin, a human resources
consulting firm, showed that many employers
are beginning to recognize the value
of older workers. It's that old-fashioned
work ethic-you know, expecting to actually
show up on time and give a fair day's
work for a fair day's wage. In its September,
2006, Bulletin, AARP honored 50 US employers
who are "friendly" to older
workers.
But doesn't
going back to work defeat the whole
idea of being retired? Isn't it supposed
to be time to stop showing up for work
when someone else says you should? You
wanted freedom, remember? Do you have
to give that up to regain that sense
of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are making money
in home businesses that allow them to
be their own bosses and retain
the exhilaration of the freedom to run
their own lives. At the same time, they're
able to generate extra income to bulk
up the nest egg and provide substantially
more financial security for the 20,
30 or more years to come. Freedom from
financial worry is just as important
as freedom from job demands if you're
going to enjoy the rest of your life.
And as a home-based entrepreneur, you
can still enjoy all the dreams you planned.
As long as you have a computer and a
phone, you can run your "home"
business from anywhere you call home-including
your vacation cottage, RV, or even your
favorite beach.
If you're
retired, or soon will be, now is the
time to get started. You already have
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them and start right away to put
a sense of purpose back in your life.
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