Like
it or not, the world is composed of
two types of people - talkers and doers.
Which
one are you?
About
10 years ago, a friend of mine made
a life-altering decision. She had been
presented with an opportunity to spend
one year as an exchange student in Europe,
in several different countries. Now,
she didn't exactly come from a family
of world travelers, nor were her parents
wealthy enough to send her overseas
for an extended amount of time. Come
to think of it, no one in her poor neighborhood
had even dreamed of doing such a thing
- they were to busy struggling with
their day-to-day existence.
The temptation to not consider it any
further was certainly very strong. She
had no idea what she might be getting
into; She didn't know any foreign languages.
Going overseas for a year meant not
working, spending lots of her hard-earned
savings (and in her neighborhood, that
meant a lot!) and leaving behind family
and friends, something that she had
never done before. More importantly,
when she would come back, she'd come
back broke.
She went back and forth for quite a
while. In then end, she said, "what
the heck - the worst that can happen
is that I hate it and come home early.
Who knows when I'll have this kind of
time again?" Her curiosity
was getting the best of her. She called
her school counselor. "Sign
me up", she said.
Needless to say, her family thought
she was crazy and didn't believe she
was actually going until she scraped
together her meager savings and left
for the airport two months later.
Lessons Learned
Initially, the trip across the pond
was a total disaster. To begin with,
the airline bumped her entire group
- 50 people - leaving her to find other
airlines to get to Europe. With her
luck, she ended up on the later flight.
Then, she ended up spending 10 hours
in the airport before she finally left.
She was thinking that she probably should
have listened to all the people that
told her she was crazy to go. She arrived,
exhausted and with a mean case of jetlag
in Europe the next day; she got to her
apartment and passed out.
A funny thing happened the next day.
After getting out and exploring a bit,
she discovered that she actually liked
Europe. It was so easy to travel and
get around. She found her way to the
nearest travel agency and bought a train
pass.
The next week, she traveled to a few
countries - all on her own, because
several students were too afraid to
travel outside the "base"
country. This isn't to say that she
wasn't apprehensive, because she was;
however, she made a conscious decision
to overcome her fear because she wanted
to find out what else was out there.
She wanted to know what was beyond the
sheltered world that she had once known.
She discovered that train travel across
Europe was quite easy and safe, if one
just used common sense. After the first
week, she traveled, alone, to a different
country every week. She felt a newfound
sense of independence, freedom, accomplishment
and success that she had never felt
before, and it felt great!
Her year in Europe was a real eye opener
for her. It exposed her to things that
she would never have experienced otherwise.
She would never have experienced different
cultures, systems, met as many new people
or learned that she had a very adventurous
spirit and thirst for knowledge. And
she would have never met her future
husband. They ended up running his
restaurant together, quite successfully,
in Berlin for another year, before they
both returned to the States. She was
not as broke as she had imagined she
would be!
What's the lesson from all this? Don't
let fear hold you back - nothing great
is ever accomplished without some risk.
Fear is what keeps 99% of people
from becoming successful in life.
Don't let that happen to you - know
what you want and go for it!
What You Need To Know
Attaining
success in life is completely up to
you. Sure, there are some factors that
you just can't control. The answer?
Don't worry about them - worry about
factors that you can
control - you and your
actions and your thinking.
Points To Remember:
- Be open to all
possbilities. Don't discount an
idea just because it seems new to
you.
- Don't let fear
of failure dominate you, although
it can be very powerful. Fear is
what stops 99% of people from being
successful.
- Recognize that
sometimes you have to take a risk
- successfully negotiating risk-taking
is what makes one successful in
the long run.
- Always keep an
eye out for new opportunities.
Success
in life is about finding inner peace,
satisfaction and emotional stability.
You can't achieve that until you change
your thinking, start thinking out of
the box and take some risk. This applies
to business as well as to your personal
life.
You've got to be able to step out of
your "comfort zone".
Some Of The Pillars Of Success:
- Plan your work,
and work your plan!
- Strive for excellence.
Set your own goals - don't try to
reach the goals of others
- Make a commitment
and stick to it!
- Accept that disappointments
are a fact of life. Instead of allowing
them to hold you back, overcome
them and you will become stronger.
- Turn every experience,
whether good or bad, into a learning
experience.
- Live each day
as if it were your last; have no
regrets.
Some
Final Words
..
There are more talkers than doers in
our society. Which one are you? Do you
wait for things to happen,
or do you make them happen?
If you think that things will happen
for you if you just think about it
and fail to take action, I have bad
news for you. They won't. The only thing
worse than procrastinating for a day
is procrastinating for a day and a minute.
It's time to stop thinking about
making a change to ensure your future
success and time to do something
about it. Starting a home based
business if the first step that you
need to be willing to take - for your
financial independence, your financial
security and that of your family.
If
you don't look out for you, who will?
I have the answer - no one. If you are
ready to take control of your destiny
then now is the time to start. I can
show you the way - but it is up to you
to make the decision to change your
life for the better and take that first
step. Remember, you're not alone - we
are with you! Take the time to fill
out the form below to get started on
your new path to success today - because
time isn't going to wait for you to
make up your mind.